He's just not that into you

'He's just not that into you' that familiar Sex and the City phrase and now the title of an entire film.
I was reading a piece in Style magazine on the train back to London last weekend which centered largely around the topics said statement and film title bring up. I must admit I don't usually read the editorial, more glance over where I can buy what that week but I got stuck into this one when I read the first paragraph.

'This, I promise is exactly what he said to me "right, I m calling you tomorrow and you'd better have your phone with you. I absolutely adore you. I have to know when I m seeing you again'

Of course the man this quote came from never contacted the writer of the piece again. Surprise. Surprise. It grabbed me because I have had exactly the same thing happen as have the vast majority of my female friends.
After meeting you once or possibly twice the boy/man goes all goey at the knees and starts professing what is almost love it seems! These declarations come in many forms, examples below:
'I want you to book out next weekend so we can have more time together'
'I've never felt so comfortable with anyone before, we fit together so perfectly'
'I could fall in love with you so easily'
These are just gathered from a couple of friends experiences, there are many more.
I could go on.
If a girl said these sorts of things surely the guy would be running for the hills? So why then after going out on a limb after such a relatively short time do these boys say such things when their intention is to never see you again? Then of course we as the female population have to accept that he is simply 'just not that into you'.
One of my more straight talking friends asked a male perpetrator outright as to why he would say such things only to act the exact opposite. The reply being 'I'm just crap'. ok. Food for thought there I guess? Maybe rather than 'he's just not that into you' we should be saying to each 'maybe he is just a bit crap'. A later text message read 'I think we should leave this as I am useless and can't be relied on for anything'.

I would urge you girls to let me know your thoughts and experiences on this in your comments. I'm sure there are a few other similar stories out there.

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JANA

The thing I am beginning to realize, based on a

website..by Christian Carter... is that men NEED

the chase, portion of a relationship,and if you

make it all too easy, then, they will slip off

in the opposite direction. It is necessary like

the sparks of the fireworks, themselves...in getting to the depth of their sexual organ and

heart both... that you are not an easy catch, and

yet make it known by indirectly flirting, and softly touching them, like in passing... which will actually create that ephemeril magic, touch,

but not touch,.. like a delicate gauze of feeling,

and the MOLECULES of your hand, or light touch to

the man..indirectly...is the HOOK not anything real direct, make that physical or otherwise, is

MORE sexual, TO HIM, and magical TO HIM, than any

thing you females do, to attract him, much too directly. UNTIL...you pass this threshole you must

not be DIRECT...either emotionally or physically..

with the man... its a matter of 'setting the hook'

the opposite way than if you were actually fishing

in the river. Catching men, is INDIRECTly set.

THEN, as time moves forward,..more direct, NEED

and DEMAND must get into place. But, always revert

back...to the ephemeril, light touch, and allure

off and on, until... you really get him good, on

your page.

Practice as if it were a DANCE, for it truly is

one...

I 've had to start over several times, and proved

that it is this INDIRECTNESS that really the guy

interrested, and attracted to you, this is magic.

Samara

I think it's pretty simple actually: we seem to have this idea that men are all terrified of commitment and only want one thing, and women are all desperate to settle down soon as possible, drooling over wedding dresses and wanking over the Mothercare catalogue. So a lot of men think that the most surefire way of impressing a woman, whatever degree of commitment he actually wants from her, is to pretend he's gagging to enter into a serious relationship with her.

Everything would be much simpler if people were actually honest with each other.

mofo

orward, how a woman should be.

To be honest, most of us men would love it if a girl we dig, was just as open with them as they were with them from the start. If a guy shows you a lot of love, passion, warmth, then there’s no need for a woman to feel like they need to hold back because of past experience perhaps or what’s been instilled

Girls, ask all your male friends, you don’t need to ask yourself or other females. You all know the answer...as you all have male friends who come running to you when a girl rejects them.

What do you say?

‘she’s just not that into you…’

SelinaC

Boys - and it is boys - who utter such ridiculousness at such an early stage are generally the type who wrote poetry or dire love songs when they were in their teens and didn't have to deal with actual relationships. They just haven't grown up yet. And quite frankly, more fool the woman who believes them. If he's not into you, he won't say anything like that and still not call. If he says those things he probably is into you but doesn't know how to deal with it and therefore not worth your time and effort.

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