The F Word have alerted me to the ruckus over Sarah Lacy's interview with Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg at SXSW, and all I can say is WOW. Apparently Lacy bombed. CNET reported that from the beginning of her interview she "repeatedly interrupted him" and that the crowd started to get more and more irritated with her. So irritated, in fact, that at one point someone shouted from the audience, "Talk about something interesting!" The shouter was met with cheers and Lacy angrily responded with: "Try doing what I do for a living! It's not that easy." However, the group of enraged 16-year-old Facebook obsessed nerds weren't having it. There were then more boos, more sassy comments from Lacy, more angry jeering...rinse. Repeat.
CNET reckons that she "out-and-out bombed", and that perhaps this was merely a case of making a bad interview style choice and that Lacy choosing to act over familiar and flirty with Zuckerman was just the wrong way to go. Feminists are saying this is a case of sexism, and that she was treated that badly because of her gender. One commenter on CNET even said that the heckling audience members acted "like a bunch of pimple faced 16 year old boys mad at the girl dungeon master". However, someone else seems to think that this is just a perfect example of "the love/hate relationship that geeks have with the women who try to invade their territory". Invade their territory? Ooof.
Unfortunately, I think the ever-so-slightly misogynist commenter has a point. A lot of men, and geeks, do look at The Geek World as being male, and that women, especially good looking women, are "invading" their space. Maybe Lacy's flirtatious interview style with Zuckerberg drew too much attention to the fact that YES! She's a woman! and the men in the audience's brains all melted because a girl had just captured their flag...or something.
The same commenter follows up his "invading their territory" comment by saying that if women in tech treat the Geeks "with respect and genuinely act as one of them" you will be rewarded by getting "treated like Veronica Belmont or Cali Lewis". Apparently Sarah Lacy didn't treat them with enough respect and acted to much like not one of them. So, really, Lacy was responsible for her own FAIL. Wow. I think I'm catching on! That's like when women wear revealing clothing and then get raped...she should have known better, right? See? She was ASKING FOR IT, really...
Another angry commenter didn't like this whole idea that Sarah was being attacked because she has a vagina, but rather because she just plain sucked. In a comment titled "GENDER BS", Drumdance wrote:
"This is BS. The VERY NEXT SESSION in the SAME ROOM was by Kathy Sierra i.e a woman. Her presentation was brilliant, which is why her sessions are packed every year. No backlash against her. Do you think it might have something to do with the quality of the content?"
"Sarah Lacy might be a good writer (I haven't read her stuff for BusinessWeek) but she clearly is not a good live interviewer. I thought the same thing about Kottke a couple years ago when he interviewed Dooce."
It's hard for me to come to a conclusion on this. Was Sarah Lacy treated like crap because she just didn't approach her interview the correct way, and evidently bombed? Was she treated so badly because the Geeks were mad that a chick invaded their territory? Would Sarah Lacy have been better received if she had only respected the Geeks more, and had only tried harder to act like one of them? ("One of us. One of us.")
I am more than willing to accept that yeah, maybe her interview skills did suck a bit. I don't know for sure, I wasn't there. However, there's a big part of me that wonders who the hell thinks it's okay to start ganging up on a journalist interviewing the CEO of a company? No matter how bad it sucks, fucking keep your mouth shut and don't be a jerk. Have a little maturity. But saying all that, it's the whole "act like one of them" and "have some respect" comment that just puts me over the edge.
Should she have brought a small offering upon her arrival, as a sign that she shows respect for their culture? Perhaps a small animal sacrifice? Should she have dressed differently to blend in? In that case I'm sure real sure Lacy is just kicking herself right now wondering why she didn't just throw on a pair of Converse, some funky plastic glasses and wear a black and white Fruit Of The Loom T-shirt with ironed on letters that spell out OH HAI.
I suppose the logical answer is that it was a combination of all of the above that lead to the Zuckerberg Lacy Scandal. Therefore, I leave you with this update from Lacy's Twitter account:
"seriously screw all you guys. I did my best to ask a range of things."
Cate Sevilla is the Editor of Dollymix. She doesn't have anything against Converse, OH HAI or funky plastic glasses. Or real Geeks for that matter. Just the asshole, misogynist, jerk ones that don't actually ever do anything techy besides going to tech conferences and heckling female journalists.


