Social nitpicking: Flaming Nora remembers when social networking was actually social

dm.jpgIn her regular weekly column, this week Flaming Nora does a bit of social nitpicking about social networking...

Was it Karl Marx who first coined the phrase commodity fetishism? I think of those two words every time I pass a shop or surf a site selling any kind of add-ons for already blinged-up techy stuff. It’s something I don’t understand and have no desire to buy, but I’m not a complete technophobe. I might refuse to follow the herd and buy an iPod, but I won't have anything but DABs at home, believing in sound quality over quantity any day. And I’m the sort of person who’ll give you a nasty stare if I’m sat next to you on the tube with your swish, bang, swish, swish, bang coming out of your ears and into my space. Did I just say MySpace? Ooh, don’t get me started on social networking sites.

I remember the days when th’internet was all green fields and html code and by gum it seems like hard work when you can now tickle your mouse to carry out the equivalent of a whole screen of code. 14, count ‘em, 14 years ago social networking sites meant something very different indeed.

In my case, the social aspects of the web came from meeting up, in real life, with real people (yes, we really did this, folks) who shared the same interests. We’d meet online, groups of regular posters to a soap opera fan Usenet group and after exchanging emails and posts we’d head in large groups and small ones, to the pub, for a curry, up and down the country and then post pictures and reviews the next day. Not only did we talk about our favourite soap (ok, it was Corrie) but the joy was in meeting up with someone you’d only known as Elsie_Tanner_No7 for the past three months.

It was quite a surprise, at first, to find Elsie was a bearded fella in his 50s but as Corrie itself attracts gay, straight and transsexual fans, the people I met through the group were as varied and interesting as anyone you'd ever find on TV.

As the newsgroup, and internet, grew in popularity and more people joined the Usenet community, a weekend in Blackpool was arranged with overseas posters even coming in from Canada and the US . A good time was had by all even if I did get an electric shock from the washbasin in my bedroom of the very dodgy B&B we’d been booked into after one of our group found it online – a rare occurrence back in 1995. The Corrie group of fans meeting up over the years has evolved and there have been weddings and partnerships of people who have met up online. Now that’s social networking.

So don’t expect me to get excited if this William Wales chap who’s signed up on Facebook is the real deal or not, give me Elsie_Tanner_No7 any day for a chat and a pint - in real life. [Flaming Nora]

Flaming Nora is the editor of Corrieblog

Social nitpicking: Flaming Nora remembers when social networking was actually social - Comments

  • you should do that Glenda!

    some people are just really selfish with them and I can understand it must be awful on the tube. Apparently it's even worse in Australia as the maximum volume is much louder over there...!

    I promise I behave considerately with mine :)

  • Glenda

    Diane, my beef with Ipods are the people who use them in confined spaces such as the tube. It's unpleasant enough without sitting next to some idiot with snap, crackle and pop coming out of their ears and into my space when I'm trying to read. We all have our distraction techniques when travelling by underground but sitting next to an iPod user twice a day when sound is leaking from their system into the carriage is the worst thing ever. I feel like going into business selling really high quality headphones that won't leak sound and every time I sit next to an Ipodder with squish bangs coming out of their ears I'll hand them a business card with my website address on it for them to buy some decent headphones. ;-)

  • I love my iPod and have made lots of friends and got lots of work opportunities via the net - don't knock it for people who can't get out and about so easily! (more on this topic in my column on Monday... sorry.)

    I do know what you mean though Glenda - I think just take what you like and ignore the rest. I'm trying really hard to avoid getting sucked into Facebook and I've forgotten my Myspace login so that's OK... I promise I don't have my iPod on loud :)

  • Thanks Francois. DAB still sounds better than the noise from someone sat next to me on the tube with a flippin' iProd though! ;-)

    Glenda

    Editor www.corrieblog.tv

  • francois

    DAB radio is actually lower audio quality than traditional analogue radios, all things being equal. It's a common misconception. Analogue can sound worse because the ear picks up on the crackling caused by a poor signal or aerial. Whereas DAB is broadcast in lower quality to start with (like MP3 quality), so even a perfect signal still gives you lower sound quality. It just sounds cleaner than analogue. You can really hear the difference with dynamically complicated music like Classical. It isn't so noticeable with speech.

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